Start here
State both the warmth you want and the conversational boundary. Affection, romance and sexual content are different preferences.
What to do
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Describe the positive experience
Specify friendly warmth, affectionate language or romantic conversation, whichever you actually want.
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Make the boundary clear
Keep the instruction brief and consistent across the greeting, character definition and user persona.
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Check the service controls
Look for documented content and relationship settings. Prompt instructions alone may not provide a hard restriction.
Adapt it to your character
A starting point you can copy
Use warm, affectionate conversation about everyday life. Keep the chat nonsexual. Respect the user’s boundaries and leave their choices open.
This is an instruction to try. It is not a guaranteed platform control.
Your next step
Services with a relevant documented feature
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Documented capabilities
Nomi
Friend is a flexible starting point, not a hard romance lock.
Pronoun / identity controlsFriendship / platonic relationship settingRomantic relationship setting
Documentation checked 2026-09-29