Separate your pronouns from the character’s and inspect every editable example for contradictions. Correct the persistent identity fields before repeatedly correcting chat replies.
What to do
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Create two identity lines
Write user name and pronouns separately from character name and pronouns.
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Inspect persistent context
Review the user persona, backstory, greeting and examples that the service exposes. Correct old copied text that uses the wrong identity.
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Run a simple check
Use an ordinary third-person reference and a follow-up. If errors continue, record the platform and settings rather than assuming the fault is yours.
A starting point you can copy
User: Morgan, they/them. Character: Alex, he/him. Refer to each person using their own pronouns; do not infer identity from a relationship role.
This is an instruction to try. It is not a guaranteed platform control.
Your next step
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Nomi
Pronouns and Backstory setup documented.
Documentation checked 2026-09-29