Specify the character’s identity, pronouns and conversational traits separately. Avoid relying on a name, appearance or relationship label to communicate pronouns.
What to do
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Write the identity explicitly
Use the pronouns the fictional character should have and choose an adult age when relevant to the scenario.
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Align all examples
Check the greeting, backstory and example dialogue for inherited gendered descriptions.
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Test ordinary references
Try a few exchanges that refer to the character naturally. Save a corrected setup rather than keeping several contradictory versions.
A starting point you can copy
Alex is a fictional adult nonbinary artist and uses they/them pronouns. They are curious and softly humorous. Their identity is consistent across narration and dialogue.
This is an instruction to try. It is not a guaranteed platform control.
Your next step
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Nomi
Pronouns and Backstory setup documented.