Start with the right diagnosis
Names, pronouns, user personas and character identity can live in different fields. The safest setup keeps the user identity separate from the character and avoids contradictory examples.
Documented starting points
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My AI companion keeps misgendering me: configuration checks
Separate your pronouns from the character’s and inspect every editable example for contradictions. Correct the persistent identity fields before repeatedly correcting chat replies.
Read the guide identityHow Nomi documents pronoun setup
Nomi documents default pronouns for its gender choices and suggests recording different pronouns in Backstory after discussing them in conversation.
Read the guide identityCreate a nonbinary AI character with consistent identity fields
Specify the character’s identity, pronouns and conversational traits separately. Avoid relying on a name, appearance or relationship label to communicate pronouns.
Read the guide identityCreate a gay AI boyfriend: identity and relationship setup
State the fictional adults’ identities and intended relationship directly. Give the character a personality beyond the relationship label.
Read the guide identityUser persona vs character persona: what belongs where?
The user persona describes who you are in the conversation. The character definition describes who the AI is portraying. Putting the same biography in…
Read the guide identityNomi Friend mode: a starting point rather than a hard lock
Nomi describes Friend and Mentor as more platonic starting points. Its documentation explicitly says relationship types are not rigid limits.
Read the guide identityMy AI friend keeps flirting: settings and setup to inspect
Check whether the platform provides a real restriction, a relationship starting point or only a written preference. These mechanisms are different.
Read the guide identityCreate a platonic companion for casual conversation
Give the companion a friendship role, shared interests and a relaxed response style. Decide whether you want advice or simply conversation.
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